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In truth, I can get pretty sappy in my old age.
The mask I like to wear is that of the all-knowing journalist or the experienced hard-nosed businessman.
The reality? As I have gotten older, it is amazing how sappy I have become.
My eyes start to water during some of the scenes in the movie Field of Dreams, even after seeing it a half dozen times. The scene where his dad comes on the field, well, gulp . . .
A week ago watching my friend Charlie Krebs walking around the track at the Lander Relay for Life holding hands with his 11-year-old granddaughter had that effect. Her love for her gramps was so obvious. Another sappy moment for me.
As the emcee at that Relay it is my job to organize the music. It is hard to not choke up when we play Celine Dion’s Because You Love Me or when the Pretenders sing I Will Stand By You.
Since this is a time for me to fess up, it is okay to admit here that some BeeGees songs really get to me, especially I Started A Joke. HeckI even like some ABBA songs. Yeah, I know. Pretty darned sappy.
Classic movies like Gandhi, Doctor Zhivago and Lawrence of Arabia all have scenes can make me choke up. Titanic is in a class of its own when it comes to bringing out sappiness.
Our eleven grandchildren really can make me sappy. When Wolf and Hayden say, “I love you, Pop Pop,” well, it sure tugs at my heart.
When Daylia asks me to give her advice on a story she is writing or talking about photography, well, it sure feels good.
Grandson Braley Hollins in Dallas and I sure enjoyed watching the Mavericks beat the Heat in the NBA finals. We talked on the phone after every Mav victory. Great moments to remember.
Our other grandchildren offer up these kind of sappy moments like Mallory starting college, Mae playing softball and writing newspaper sports stories and Royal being such a nice sensitive boy while being a darned good athlete, too.
Watching Aftin run track and appear in plays and Ezra growing into a nice young man rank up there, too.
And then there are the youngest, Fin and Emery, who as four year olds, just make an old man sappy (and happy) by offering up those great hugs.
As I write this, we are in Iowa attending the funeral of my mother-in-law. Viola Musich was just about as good a mother-in-law as any man could have deserved.
It always seemed like she took the sides of her four sons-in-laws over her own daughters, much to their chagrin.
She was a wonderful cook, making incredible fried chicken. She also loved to make me cherry pie and cinnamon rolls that would melt in your mouth. No wonder I gained 40 pounds after getting married, as Nancy cooked the same way as her mother, back in those days.
Not long after first meeting Nancy, I was a struggling college student who did not even own a car. My school was in the next town, Denison, so I would have to hitchhike a ride to Harlan, Iowa. Once there, Vi would feed me very well and make sure my laundry was done.
Nancy and I were married 45 years ago at the ages of 20 and 19 and my long love affair with her family started back then. A wonderful group of caring people, they were all guided by the strong unselfish hands of this matriarch.
The whole clan gathered a couple of years ago to celebrate her 90th birthday. She hated being fussed over but all the attention was well deserved. A good time was had by all.
Deaths in a family and funerals are sad times but they are also celebratory times. In this case, we are also celebrating seven children, two dozen grandchildren and another two dozen great-grandchildren. Viola loved them all and doted on all of them. She will be missed.
In my case, it just brings out my sappiness, all the more.
But at this age, it doesn’t seem to be a problem to admit it any more.
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